Parents of Children Between 2 and 16 yrs old WATCH THIS...

Parents of Children Between 2 and 16 yrs old WATCH THIS...

Could it Really Be This Easy to Stop the Tantrums, Regain CONTROL of Your Kid and Keep Your Family Happy While Turning Your Child into an Angel… To Where Your Child Feels Literally Addicted to Making You Happy?

The Answer is “YES”…And If YOU Want to Eliminate the Drama, Outbursts and Arguments, and Start Experiencing the Love, Attention and Respect You Deserve from Your Child Without Having to Go Through a Lengthy Parenting Program…Then This Will Be the Most Important Letter You’ll Ever Read… 

Dear Friend,
I have some important questions to ask you. Think carefully as you answer…

• Have you ever dreaded coming home from work because the stress levels were just too much to take?

• Do you find yourself ALLOWING bad behavior because you would rather not start another argument?

• Are you FRUSTRATED at how many times you have to repeat yourself before you are listened to?

• Do you feel BAD about having to resort to raising your voice?

• Do you ever fear that your kid’s ANGRY defiance could one day escalate into drug addiction or worse?

• Has your child’s OUTBURSTS and TANTRUMS turned into violent situations that have scared you?

• Are you afraid that your family will fall apart because you haven’t been able to regain control?

• Do you worry what the tantrums might turn into when they get older, crime or drug use or worse…?

• Have you ever lost your temper at your husband or wife because of the way they yelled at the kid?

• Do you wish you could get more time with your spouse, but find that your child's feelings get hurt and they get in the way of your alone time?

• Are you TERRIFIED of what the teenage years might bring?

If you’ve had any of these worries, then you are just like my wife and I before our jealous, angry daughter became a LOVING CHILD who complete strangers feel compelled to compliment.

A little history, my wife had a 7 yr old Terror from her previous marriage; I had NO experience as a parent what so ever.

The child was literally RUNNING my wife's life and there was no father in the picture to help carry the load.

Regardless of the warnings, I knew she was the woman for me. So we moved in together.

Pretty soon the tantrums started. I couldn’t take “my honey” out to dinner anymore because the kid would have a fit. SCREAMING, YELLING, accusing her mother of not loving her any more.

This went on for months, and my patience wore thin. Then I lost my temper at the kid, and Mom got defensive.

Pretty soon my wife and I were FIGHTING CONSTANTLY. There was NO romance left and we were each secretly imagining life without each other again.

This was the worst situation any parent could have found themselves in! Does any of this sound familiar?

It’s not like we didn’t try. We read parenting books, watched DVDs. Even took advice from strangers. No one could believe my daughter's behavior!

I began asking myself: Am I such a terrible father? What am I doing wrong? Did I make a mistake?

 

So Where Did We Find Hope?

At the time, I was in a professional training class for something called Neurolinguistic Programming, which is a scientific approach to human behavior and motivation. I learned a clue to the answer in that class.

I learned the REAL reason why my wife’s daughter was doing what she was doing.

We experimented with MANY different techniques until we found the one that literally transformed this problem child into our little Angel overnight.

Many years later, I asked MY daughter why she behaved like she did. And her answer confirmed everything I had learned about child behavior.

So if I can succeed at STOPPING the Tantrums, with NO parenting experience, then YOU can definately do it.

The good news is there is hope for you as a parent and it is NOT your fault.

The "solution” is simple and easy to learn... but it took me a LONG time to get it right. Please take this as hard-earned wisdom... from one friend to another.

Here Are the TOP 3 Parenting Mistakes Every Parent Makes And Why They Hurt You and Your Child

1. Watch your language! 

Your Language as a parent is extremely important to be mindful about. Think of your child as a SPONGE. He or she absorbs everything and never stops. Even when you think they are not listening.

Kids takes everything literally. DON’T BE SARCASTIC. They don’t know what sarcasm is, even if you think they do. If you say, “Stop acting like a monkey”.
Guess What?

They are going to START acting like a monkey.

I’m amazed at parents who tell their kids, “Stop Running around.”

Guess what, the kid hears, “Run Around” and does exactly that.

Not very effective, is it? You’ve got to remember kids think differently, so...

Secret: State Commands in the Positive

Give them permission to be good.
Lets look at these minor corrections.

Instead of “Stop eating Junk food” Say, “Eat these yummy carrot sticks”
Instead of “ Why are you yelling”, say, “lets talk in quite voices for a minute”

This comes from a very powerful Hypnotic technique called embedded commands. This is very powerful. Just by switching around a negative statement into a positive one, you will see instant changes in behavior. Read on, there is more…

2. Stop asking WHY! 

Guys, seriously. Do you really think your child is going to give you a rational explanation?

Example: little Sarah hits her baby brother for no apparent reason. Mom asks, “Why did you hit him Sarah?”

This is what Sarah is NOT going to say, “Well, first I was playing with clay. I had a hard time making it look like a rocking chair so I got frustrated. My brother was nearby so I took out my anger on him.”

NO WAY!

Secret: There is no truly rational explanation for your child’s behavior, stop looking for one!

Instead, ask HOW.

Let’s redo our conversation with Sarah, shall we?

Sarah, “How did hitting your baby brother make you feel about yourself?”
Expect to see shame, even defiance in a reply. That’s OK.

Then ask, “Can you think of other ways of being mad?”
And offer positive suggestions.

3. Focus on the IMPORTANT things and the other things will fix themselves

Right now, your child is acting up for a reason that makes sense only to your child.

Nine times out of ten, that reason is because they feel THREATENED a situation and just need positive attention and love.

Your job is NOT to stop the tantrums, yelling and other irritating behavior, but to make him or her feel SECURE. I can’t emphasize this enough.

Give them the gift of knowing they are secure, that your love is not going anywhere.

Lets look at this situation from their lens: you want to go out to dinner with your new man.
You see it as a quite respite from single mother-hood.

You kid sees it as “MOMMY is leaving me, and if that happens, who is going to feed me? Who is going to protect me? Who is going to love me? I must stop her from leaving. For my own survival”.

Think I’m exaggerating that one? NOPE. I asked my daughter about it years later. And this is EXACTLY what she told me she was thinking at the time.

Secret: Address the Security Issue First

I’m not going to give a way all the secrets, just know that there is a way of making your child feel safe, instantly, DIRECTLY into their unconscious mind.

For now, I’ll just say that you can use the positive permission language from the other secrets to get it across. It might sound like this:

“I know you are upset, but guess what, when I get back, you and Mommy are going to (fill in the blank of their favorite thing to do with you)”. Then just walk away. Seriously.
They need to experience you walking away….

...Then coming back.

They need to experience this at least 7 times, but there are ways to shorten this instantly. Read on…

Why Should You Listen To Me?

Ok, I'm NOT a biological father, I have been a parent for less than half of my daughter’s life. So why on earth am I sitting here writing this letter to you?

Because I was thrust into a HOPELESS situation, and I found hope, I found a system that worked for me in the worst possible parenting situation. And it WILL work for you too.
 
I have been studying the mind for a long time. I see clients in my practice on a regular basis and help them make HUGE powerful changes in their lives. But I had never worked with kids before becoming a Dad.

It was Daddy School Crash Course on Speed. So I pulled from ALL of my understanding of the human mind, emotional development and did tons of research to back this method up.

Did you know that our behavior is 95% controlled by our unconscious mind. This percentage increases to nearly 100% for children! (American Psychologist, 1999)

If you are not communicating DIRECTLY with their unconscious mind, you will be working 100 time harder than you need to.

Researcher Sonja Lyubomirsky compiled available research to break down our sources of happiness: 10% depends on our life circumstances, 50% depends on our genes and that golden 40% is subject to how we choose to respond to circumstances.

This explains why the same person can respond differently to the same set of life events.

It also proves that by teaching your child new ways to respond to your life circumstance he or she can truly be happy.

There is nothing wrong with other parenting methods, but NONE of them deal with the unconscious mind. They teach skills that have to be repeated hundreds of times before you see real lasting change.

If You Are Not Talking to Their Unconscious Mind, Then You Are Not Getting Through

I spent years in Hypnotherapy training, NLP workshops and spoke with many parenting coaches before putting this program together. I decided to call it “The Dream Child Method” because it is a concise Getting Started Guide accompanied by 3 powerful audio files designed specifically to create instant change in your child’s behavior.

What’s so great about the program is that your child won’t even know that you are doing this. They will just “want” to be a good boy or girl.

In this GROUND BREAKING program, you’ll learn exactly what goes on inside the mind of your child when they are yelling, screaming or acting out. Then you’ll learn exactly how to quickly stop it.

Simply by following the steps clearly outlined, you’ll REGAIN CONTROL of your family again. And with all that peace and quite in the house, you might get a chance to rekindle that romantic spark between you and spouse!

In fact, by the end of it, your kid will be happily hugging you goodbye, when the babysitter arrives, and you’ll be able to enjoy those nights out again.

Bedtime issues? Those will go away too. Bedtime became a NIGHTMARE in my house, I’ve been to multiple levels of pain trying to get my daughter to sleep. Now, she looks at the clock and tells ME goodnight!

If you’ve watched the STRESS in your house escalate to the point of boiling, where you just want to get out of there as quickly as possible and everyone to just go away, you’ll learn how to DIFFUSE that situation and create a peaceful nurturing home.

If you’ve noticed your relationship with your child becoming distant because of having someone new in the house, and you are torn apart from that, within a week you’ll be getting hugs and warm feelings once again, almost effortlessly.

You will learn BREAKTHROUGH methods of teaching your child to cope with change and with difficult emotions. Life lessons that your child will be able to take with them as they grow into adulthood.

If you child is feeling down on him or herself, you will be able to give the GIFT of self-esteem, your kid will feel better and better about him or her self EVERY DAY, and will continue to grow and shine in front of your eyes.

If you’ve ever avoided a confrontation with your child because you didn’t want to get them started, you will learn how to make them feel good about themselves for doing the right thing without you even asking.

Here are a few of the other things you'll learn inside this exciting program:

• A Proven Step by Step plan to get you OUT of the power struggle with your child and back in the drivers seat, as FAST as humanly possible. It also works especially well with those really hard to control kids who just don’t seem to listen, and brings out their obedient cheerful self.

• What NOT to say to your kid. The consequences if you say it, including turning your child against you. They will start to reject everything you say from there on after.

• A simple “works every time” psychological trick for creating INSTANT positive changes from within you child, and you won’t even need to have a conversation.

• New language guidelines so that your child will listen to you EVERY TIME you speak, so that you will never have to repeat yourself again.

• Powerful affirmation writing techniques that will rekindle your close relationship with your child so that you can be CONFIDENT in handling any situation you find yourself in, whether its hanging onto an existing relationship or being able to confidently bring home a new man and know your kid will accept him and like him.

• A brand new scientifically PROVEN way to permanently break your child free from depression and sadness… no matter how severe… and replace it with feelings of happiness and contentment.

• A simple psychological trick to CONQUER anger and anxiety and never again be a slave to your child’s emotions.

How can you know if this program is for you?

If you have the perfect child who NEVER has tantrums, who never argues with you and you listens to you the first time you say something, then you probably don’t need this.

If you are 100% confident that your child will overcome their anger issues by themselves without your help or guidance, then I doubt this program will be right for you.

If your child has bright self-esteem, comes home from school and asks for healthy snack, and goes to bed on-time every night, then you might not need this program.

On the other hand, there are certain “chronic” problems children have that don't EVER “just go away”…

Read through the list below… and if you find that you have experienced ANY ONE of these problems, I highly recommend you grab this program now.

However… if while reading through this list you realize that you have experienced more than one of these “chronic diseases” that are almost impossible to shake… you NEED to get this program immediately:

• If your kid has frequent OUTBURSTS that seem to be escalating in violence.

• If you are struggling to REGAIN CONTROL of your family, house and children.

• If you’ve tried other parenting techniques or just don’t have time learn them.

• If you’ve felt out of control in your own house and just felt like giving up.

• If you have had strangers STARE at you in public because of your kid’s poor behavior.

• If you want to be PROUD of your son or daughter once again.

• If you find that you are repeating yourself ALL THE TIME and they still don’t listen to you.

• If your kids feel “different” at school and are having trouble making friends, despite your encouragement.

• If you’re children give you a guilt trip when you hire a sitter and go out with your spouse.

• If your child’s behavior has become such a problem that you no longer have time for yourself or your spouse.

Why This Program Is Very Different From Everything Else Out There

Before you decide whether or not this program is for you... I want to tell you why it's DIFFERENT from everything else that's ever been created on this topic.

Reason #1: It’s the first time a program has been developed that deals specifically with your child’s unconscious mind.

Sure, there are a lot of "psychology" books and "parenting" programs. But NONE of them have been designed with the single purpose of helping you communicate with the unconscious mind of your child, the most powerful source of behavior… and NATURALLY stop tantrums.

My wife and I have spent many, many years of our lives learning all aspects of parenting psychology and child behavior, and we're both very interested in helping other new-families become DEEPLY nurturing when it comes to setting up a great home.

We have put a massive amount of time and energy into creating a program that will help you deal with your child’s BEHAVIOR issues as quickly and easily as possible... and help you get the RESULTS you're looking for.

I personally GUARANTEE that you will not find anything else available that is even CLOSE to this program. In a few minutes I'm going to back up this guarantee and make you an offer you'd be crazy to refuse.

Reason #2: This program was developed by two parents who have been in your shoes and who routinely help other couples quickly take back control of their jealous child.

Most of the people who are teaching parenting methods and writing parent books for normal people are “generalists” They tend to teach more academic stuff designed to help a wide range of people.

My wife and I are parents who have overcome the “Brat” Issues. We have spent years working with children and learning from other parents to “translate” the best of the best when it comes to parenting success with bringing out the inner angel.

When you go through this program and APPLY the tools we are going to teach you, I can assure you that you're going to have more success dealing with your child’s emotions... and I can assure you that this success is going to lead DIRECTLY to a more peaceful home life and family.

We are two parents who have "figured this out for ourselves", and now we're going to teach you step-by-step how to do it for yourself.

Reason #3: You don’t need to spend a lot of time following the program before seeing huge results.

When I was “figuring” things out as a new parent, I didn’t have much time. I had a full time corporate job and by wife also worked full time. We designed this specifically for parents who love their children, but simply cannot devote a whole weekend or evening to reading theory or watching coaching DVDs.

 Here’s what you are going to get

• Concise getting started guide with simple instructions on how to access your Child’s unconscious mind.

• The scientific theory about how and why this method is so powerful

• 3 pre-recorded suggestion tapes designed to quickly get results

• A transcript of those tapes for parents who want to use their own voices

• A progress chart so you can keep track of the improvements daily

• A coupon for an opportunity to work with me personally on customizing your suggestions for an even greater impact.

BONUS: FREE SLEEP CURE, this relaxing 50 minute tape is filled with powerful subliminal messages that help your child get to sleep, FAST. All they will hear is peaceful ambient music. Soon, your night-time nightmares will be over. FREE

You could be spending over $100 per session of family therapy, or over $300 for a lengthy parenting product. Not with this program! This is because I want to help as many families as possible to benefit from this program, so I’ve discounted The Dream Child Method from $97 to $42.

This program comes with a Rock Solid, full money back guarantee.

If you don’t see significant, lasting positive changes in your child’s behavior within 60 days of implementing the program, I will give you 100% of your money back.

The Answer to the Bad Behavior is in Your Hands

As parents, we never know what our kids are going to grow up to become. We don’t know what today’s tantrum is going to change into. It may become more and more violent, leading the child into repeated violent outbursts.

Your child may not respect you RIGHT NOW and that could turn into contempt or hatred in the years to come.

The stress in the house can only get so hot before something or someone breaks. Stop the cycle now and take back control.

This program will give you the tools you need to immediately stop the cycle of ANGER, OUTBURSTS and DISRESPECT. If I had this when I was going through my hard time, I would have saved years of heartache and emotional pain.

Wouldn’t it be nice to hear compliments about your child’s behavior from absolute strangers? To know that you SUCCEEDED as a parent in imparting important values and self-control to your child. To have a house that you look forward to coming home to, where dinners are fun and enjoyable once more.

You can make this dream a reality. Click on the link below to take the first step.

I’ll talk to you again soon,

Joshua Waldman, CHt

P.S. Sadly many parents will allow the bad behavior to continue, finding ways of TOLERATING being disrespected and not listened to, never experience that true closeness you could have with your child. This program will teach you how to truly stop the negative cycle and create positive, loving feelings for one an other in your family. And it will make you feel so good inside, because you’ll know you are giving your child exactly what he or she needs, a safe, empowered self-esteem.

P.P.S. This program comes in the form of a download. The recordings can be put on your MP3 player or CD. If you have any questions you can go to our support page and email CS@dreamchildmethod.com 

P.P.P.S. Results are GUARANTEED. I will send you 100% of your money back if you try this program for 60 days and didn’t see any behavioral improvements.

Real Parents Talk about the Results they’ve Had with this Program

(These have been edited and names initialed for privacy) 

At first, I didn't know what to expect. I've tried every parenting method I could get my hands on. 'How is this one different', I asked myself. But WOW! My daughter really DID improve her behavior in that first week. I really couldn't beleive it, but YES-- This works and I hightly recomend you get your hands on it FAST.

--BM- Concord, Main 

I have been extreemly happy with the CDs. Our 4 year old's ability to behave more inline with our requests has improved and she has been more willing to try new activities. Plus, she is screaming a whole lot less. I couldn't beleive how fast her improvements came.

--CB- San Diego, CA

More...

share:

Bookmark this on Delicious

Share on Facebook